MARY MAGDALENE: When Others Resist Your Changing

January 1, 2016 | Author Mercedes Kirkel

Received by Mercedes Kirkel

Question: As I’m growing and trying to have my heart in the right place, others around me, whose relationships with me are changing as I’m changing, sometimes feel hurt by me, or angry with me, or resistant to my changing. I don’t want to be hurting people but I need to grow and change. Do you have any words of wisdom on this subject?

Mary Magdalene: Yes. As much as you are able, you can communicate to people that you are aware that you are changing. You can help them to understand why you are changing. You can help them to understand why you value this change. If you are excited about it, let them know what you are excited about. Help them to see the beauty of the change you are going through.

You can also acknowledge to them that you care about them. Let them know that you realize this change may not be altogether easy for them and that you want to support them as much as you are able, in the midst of this change.

You can ask them if there is any way you can support them in adapting to this change you are going through. Ask them what they need for their wellbeing, given the changes you are in the midst of.

Oftentimes people hold onto another person out of fear that if the other changes, they’ll lose what they value in that person. So it may help if you reassure them that you care about them, that you understand that this change is affecting them. It may help for you to ask what they need in the midst of it. That will be a demonstration of your care.

It is also important to understand that there are some who will not be able to shift as you change, in a way that will support your relationship. Perhaps the relationship will come to an end. Perhaps it will be a temporary ending and will resume later. Perhaps it will come to an end altogether. This is a great test of your faith and trust in God that this ending will also support you and them.

When relationships end there can be a natural mourning of the loss of the relationship. There’s a sadness that the relationship wasn’t able to continue, wasn’t able to grow and change along with your growth and change, in a way that allowed the relationship to continue. It is good to allow yourself to go through that mourning process. You don’t necessarily need to go though it with the other person. You could, but it may very likely be something you do on your own. You are mourning the loss of the closeness, the love that you’ve known, the friendship, whatever it was that you received through this relationship.

Allow yourself to feel that loss and mourn it. That is a part of the heart growing. It is a part of what will allow you to stay in your heart, to go deeper in your heart, and grow in your ability to love others and connect to them from your heart.

Something else that is very important—you can always pray for the other person. Even if it feels that the relationship is no longer one you are engaging, you can pray for their wellbeing and for the highest good to be what occurs in the relationship between the two of you. You can ask your higher self to work with their higher self. Ask your angels to work with their angels, in whatever way feels most supportive.

It is also good to release the situation to God. Ask God to create whatever is for the highest good of all and to support you in surrendering to that. And heal whatever needs healing within you.

I recommend all of this.

Questioner: Thank you.

Mary Magdalene: You are welcome.

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